• Your Best Life is Possible!

    Overcome Imposter Syndrome

    and Self-Sabotage

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    Hi, ich bin Martina und Experte für das Impostor-Syndrom (ich bin nicht gut genung-Denken)

  • What form of Imposter Syndrome do you have?

    The more you have, the sooner you can book your free call.

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    I am not good enough

    You are constantly learning new things, collecting certificates and trainings, but you still doubt yourself all the time, you are at risk of burn-out, you are always doing something new, you have a lot of stress, you are always taking on more and more, your life is exhausting? You are successful, but it doesn't feel like it? You downplay your successes and don't accept praise or recognition.

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    I am not lovable, I am not worth it, I am worthless

    You have high emotional intensity, a lot of drama in your life, rubber band relationships, frequent financial and emotional losses? You are moderately successful and somehow can't get ahead?

    You downplay your successes and don't accept praise or recognition.

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    I am different

    you used to be bullied, you test people, your radar is always on, you have many loose ends, you keep a low profile, do special things, create distance from others, put yourself above others

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    I am better, I am special

    you don't need it, you put yourself above others, you allow yourself to do things that others don't, you break rules, you look for the gap and find it, you create distance, you do really weird things, you keep a low profile

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    I am too small, too weak, too stupid

    you go beyond your limits, you overtax yourself, you question everything, you want to be strong, you push yourself, you collect cups and titles, you prove that you can do it, you do a lot, you accumulate knowledge, you work a lot, you toughen yourself up, you definitely don't want to experience yourself as weak, you don't ask for help

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    I am unwanted, a burden for others

    you constantly want to make up for something, you apologise a lot, you are sad for no apparent reason

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    I am powerless, helpless

    you want to control people and your environment, you don't feel safe, the world is a dangerous place, you seek protection, you stage yourself as helpless, you are busy escaping, you think to yourself "catch me anyway", and then you are gone

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    I am bad, wrong, evil

    you sacrifice yourself, you stage yourself as a martyr, you are missionary, you want to convince others what is good for them, you want to help and save others

  • How does your problem show up?

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  • Hi, I am Martina

    Hello! I'm Martina Brandes, a certified Contextual Coach with a passion for helping people transform their lives. With over 15 years of experience, I've guided hundreds of individuals, from retirees to corporate leaders, towards achieving their goals and finding inner peace. My background in medicine, teaching, and philosophy allows me to offer a unique, holistic approach to coaching. I believe everyone deserves to live their best life, free from self-doubt and anxiety. Can I ever get rid of Imposter Syndrome? Yes! You can! Because your best life is possible! I love to remove your self-doubt with only 1 coaching. Free call to get to know each other.

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  • What you don`t get

    • You don't get tips and advice that won't work for you in the long run anyway.
    • I don't celebrate you in the sense of "you're the greatest", "you just have to believe in yourself, then you'll make it". That doesn't work.
    • I don't make excuses and don't ignore the problem in the sense of "now look at it differently". Because that doesn't work either.
    • I do NOT examine your beliefs. That also falls short.

     

    What you get

    I will go a step further and examine the consciousness from which conclusions and beliefs have emerged in your life. It is possible to free yourself from your negative thoughts and feelings about your past as well as old patterns and choose something entirely new.

    You will develop personally and professionally in an unexpected way and then things come possible:

    • Financial success
    • Appreciation in communication
    • Excellent relationships with other people
    • Increased emotional intelligence
    • Increased vitality
    • Happy and at peace with yourself and your past
    • what you want in life

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  • What my clients say

    "Coaching for private and professional success. Very pleasant interaction, personal, friendly, funny, effective. I can simply recommend Martina to anyone who has challenges or problems in their private or professional life. So far, strongest coaching for the psychological area that I was allowed to experience." J.Klemm

     

    "Working with Martina has raised my mindset / entrepreneurial awareness to a whole new level. Especially the points of goal achievement and time management were in the focus of my attention at the beginning in order to balance business growth

    and family (including starting my own family) in harmony, which now works excellently.

    The regular reflection and thought-provoking impulses enable me to constantly improve my company and myself, for which I am very grateful to Martina." N. Waldvogel

     

    "Very sympathetic, the coaching was very insightful for me. Even though unpleasant things were dug up in some places, it is exactly what I was looking for and has taken me a huge step further! "BJE79

     

    "Martina`s coaching is absolutely recommendable...every coaching session with her brings new insights and step by step progress." J. Buck

     

    "Ms Brandes has been able to help me a lot in both my professional and private life through her coaching!" J. Otten

     

    Dear Martina, today's coaching with you exceeded all expectations. I was with my parents tonight and made a friendship with my father. I am still amazed how you managed to open my eyes to the hero in my life within only 2.5 hours: My father. That was mega valuable and you enriched my life with it. I also gained a new perspective on my marriage / my wife.

    You are a wonderful companion and I look forward to the next 12 months with you!

    P. Grad de Oliveira, Königswege  

     

    "Can you do magic? Mrs Brandes, what's happening? The sadness is gone!!!!! I really used to get a heavy heart at least once a day......sometimes with tears. Now I can upload the thoughts that made me sad and nothing happens, I say yes to it and I am calm and happy, it is incredibly beautiful - THANK YOU!!!!!!"

    S. J. from Wuppertal

     

    ...I'm doing pretty well and I've already done a few of your tasks :). But also otherwise I am very happy with myself, because I notice how many things change in my head, so that I can look at a thing from several points of view and understand the people around me better.

    M.D. from Neu-Fahrland

     

    "Something really changed for me through the coaching, especially through the personal conversation with you. I forgave my father a lot more inside - and a short time later 300 euros from him were in my account. I then thanked him and realised that something had really changed in him. He now writes to me that he loves me, he has apologised uncompromisingly for his behaviour, and he shows genuine interest in my career goals. That is already a kind of miracle."

    S.R. from Düsseldorf

     

    Thank you for your warm, empathetic and unagitated manner. The coaching has a lasting effect. The interaction with the staff has improved significantly. The mutual understanding and appreciation is very good.

    J.G. Key Account Manager

     

    "Flashed. ..Day 1 of the training done...nope done is not the most accurate word in the least...I am thrilled, touched, speechless. I could have listened to her for hours...THANK YOU THANK YOU THANK YOU...for shaking, reminding, feeling, laughing, rethinking, provoking, challenging ....and thank you for holding my sometimes speechless stare...joyfully looking forward to what will pop in my ears tomorrow."

    M.M. from Baruth, nursing service manager

     

    My wife thinks that I have changed noticeably as a result of the coaching. I seem more like a reliable rock for her.

    For the first time at a staff meeting, I clearly stated which figures I wanted, where we stand and who is responsible for which parts. I also received positive feedback from the staff.

    I didn't smooth over the conflict phase with a good-natured approach, but instead shed light on the background and directly initiated the organisation of the problem areas. What I found coolest about the coaching was that it was so relaxed and I could look at my (bad) results and use them for further development.

    The question about the No.1: Very provocative. But since then I can say without reservation that I love my wife and we are very happy with each other!!!!!!

    E.L. from Dortmund, pharmacist

     

     

  • Get in contact

    Change something about your problems, otherwise nothing will change.

    And where will you be in 5 years if you don't change anything?

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    book a free call

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    send an email

    49 175 8345307

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